01 Aug What Can I Do if My Parents Want Me to Get an Abortion That I Don’t Want?
While you may rely on your parents for their opinion and advice, it is crucial to remember that this pregnancy decision is your own. Whatever you choose will affect you most of all, and legally no one has the right to pressure you into making a decision you’re uncomfortable with.
Even if your parents want you to have an abortion because they feel it’s the best choice, your future will be most impacted. Setting clear boundaries and expectations for how you’d like them to support you is critical.
Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center can help you navigate the ups and downs of an unexpected pregnancy. Schedule a confidential appointment to learn how we can help. You are also welcome to include your parents in an appointment, if you’d like.
You Are in Control
Even if you are a minor, live with your parents, or often look to them for guidance, you alone can make a pregnancy decision. Your parents may worry about your future or have strong opinions on an option like abortion, but it’s still your choice.
It can help to have a conversation with your parents about the boundaries you’d like to create. You may not want as much input, but they can still help you by running errands, listening to you, or doing whatever will provide the most support.
Remember, abuse of any kind is never okay. If you feel unsafe or are being abused, you deserve stability and respect. You can visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline for 24/7 support and resources.
Finding a Way Forward
You have more support than you realize when it comes to learning about your pregnancy options. Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center provides options counsel sessions to help you fully understand the implications of each.
We’re here to answer your questions. And if you’re considering parenting or adoption, we’ll provide additional resources and ongoing support to help you feel prepared for the journey.
Our staff is here to address your unique situation and help you make a pressure-free pregnancy decision. Schedule a no-cost, confidential appointment today to get started.
You are not alone.
Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center does not provide or refer for abortions.