02 May I’m Pregnant and My Partner is Abusive
Having an abusive partner can introduce uncertainty into every aspect of your life, and being pregnant can add new concerns. You deserve to feel safe and loved at all times, including during your pregnancy.
You may not know where—or who—to turn to during this time. Know that there’s hope. With resources and support, you can rebuild. Lighthouse cares about your physical and emotional health; we’ll provide confidential services to assist you.
Schedule a no-cost appointment today to find support. In the meantime, continue reading to learn how to take steps to protect yourself during pregnancy and beyond.
Know Your Worth
Abuse takes on many forms. From verbal threats and intimidation to physical violence, it can leave you feeling broken down and unsure whether you’ll find safety.
You may find the abuse has worsened during your pregnancy. Perhaps your partner feels jealous or overwhelmed by the news. He might have issued ultimatums about what will happen if you don’t make the pregnancy decision he wants you to make.
First, know that nothing you do, say, or think excuses his abuse. It’s also important to understand that abuse during pregnancy can harm your baby, causing preterm birth and other complications. It can also take a physical and mental toll on you.
You deserve support, and help is available. Call 911 if you are in an emergency situation. If you are not in immediate danger, you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for 24/7 resources. They can help you create a roadmap toward safety and stability.
Moving Forward
Abuse during pregnancy is an often frightening time, but you are not alone. We’re in your corner.
Lighthouse will connect you to resources like housing, legal support, and more, and we’ll provide continuous emotional support as you rebuild.
Additionally, ensuring you’re receiving the care you need during pregnancy is crucial. In addition to offering pregnancy testing and ultrasound to confirm your pregnancy, we’ll help you weigh your options. You deserve to decide without pressure or coercion from others.
If you pursue parenting or adoption, we’ll offer material aid, help you find prenatal care, and more. You have a place here; your voice matters, and we’ll assist you in finding a way forward.
Request a no-cost, confidential appointment today. Our staff is ready to support you.