How Do I Confirm My Pregnancy?

You may already have taken an at-home pregnancy test but are still wondering if you’re really pregnant. Though these tests are 99% accurate, there is a chance of inaccuracy if you took a test at the wrong time or the wrong way. A urine test only indicates the presence of hCG – the “pregnancy hormone” – but doesn’t indicate if hCG levels are increasing or decreasing. The results from an ultrasound after 5-6 weeks’ gestation are much more accurate for confirming a pregnancy.

When Should I Take a Pregnancy Test?

The best time to take a pregnancy test to receive the most accurate results is at least one week after your missed period. A pregnancy hormone called hCG needs this amount of time to produce a detectable amount of hCG on a pregnancy test.

How Much Does My Appointment Cost?

At Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center, our services and support are no cost to you. Whether you need to confirm your pregnancy, need STD testing, or an options consultation - it's completely free and confidential!

Do I Need an Ultrasound?

If your test result is positive, we can offer you an ultrasound exam – at no charge – to medically confirm your pregnancy. An ultrasound is needed to confirm your pregnancy, determining three vital details of your pregnancy, including: How far along you are in your pregnancy The viability of your pregnancy (if there is a heartbeat) The location of your pregnancy (if it’s growing within your uterus or not)

What are the Risks of Surgical Abortion?

Common risks of surgical abortion include: Damage to the womb or cervix Uterine perforation (accidentally putting a hole in the uterus with one of the instruments used) Excessive bleeding Infection of the uterus or fallopian tubes Scarring of the inside of the uterus Reaction to the medicines or anesthesia, such as problems breathing

What are the Risks of Medical Abortion?

Common risks of medical abortion include: Incomplete abortion (which may need to be followed by surgical abortion) Heavy and prolonged bleeding Nausea, vomiting, diarrhea Fever Infection

Is it Possible to Reverse the Effects of the Abortion Pill?

Yes — if you’ve just started the abortion pill process in the last 72 hours, it may be possible to reverse the effects of the first medication, mifepristone, through the abortion pill reversal process.

What is the Abortion Pill?

Also referred to as a medical abortion, the abortion pill is a two-pill process used to terminate a pregnancy within the first 10 weeks of gestation. This process involves taking two medications — Mifepristone and Misoprostol. Mifepristone is used to prevent the body from absorbing progesterone, the hormone that supports the growth of the pregnancy. Without progesterone, the pregnancy will be terminated. In order to remove the pregnancy tissue from the uterus, Misoprostol is taken roughly 24-48 hours after the first pill. Misoprostol causes a process of contractions that forces the fetal tissue from the womb.

What is Abortion Pill Reversal?

Many women experience feelings of regret soon after starting the abortion pill process. If you’ve recently taken Mifepristone and are seeking to reverse the effects of the medication, it may not be too late! An abortion pill reversal involves taking a prescribed amount of progesterone to counteract the effects of Mifepristone. However, in order to reverse the effects of the abortion pill, time is of the essence and it’s important to act quickly.

Where can I access an abortion pill reversal?

If you are currently seeking an abortion pill reversal contact Abortion Pill Reversal’s 24/7 helpline via chat or by calling 877-558-0333. Their on-call health professionals are available at all hours and can help assess if you are eligible for an abortion pill reversal. If you are eligible and choose to move forward with the abortion pill reversal process, your assigned Healthcare Professional will connect you with a qualified medical provider in your area and begin the process.

Is it too late to start an abortion pill reversal?

If you’ve taken Mifepristone within the last 72 hours and have not yet taken Misoprostol, you may still be eligible for the abortion pill reversal process. But time is of the essence, so contacting the helpline immediately is recommended.

Are there any risks associated with an abortion pill reversal?

No! Thankfully, progesterone is safe and proven effective in reversing the effects of the abortion pill. The reversal process has proven effective approximately 65 percent of the time. I’m pregnant and haven’t decided if the abortion pill is right for me. If you’re pregnant and considering taking the abortion pill, it’s important to take time to educate yourself and decide if it’s truly the right choice for you.

How Healthy is My Relationship?

19 Aug How Healthy is My Relationship?

Posted at 19:35h in Blog, Relationships

A loving and healthy relationship is something everyone deserves, but creating one takes hard work from both partners. Every characteristic of your relationship, such as how you communicate or how you feel when you’re around each other, contributes to the relationship as a whole. It’s important to take the time to think about what characteristics make up your relationship. A healthy relationship is made up of characteristics like encouragement and support, whereas an unhealthy relationship is made up of characteristics like put-downs and disrespect. Ask yourself these five questions to find out how healthy your relationship is, then contact Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center today to learn about our free relationship counsel and support services.

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1. How does this relationship make me feel?

When you are with your significant other, you deserve to feel respected, happy, comfortable, and free to be yourself. Are you excited before you see your partner? Does your significant other respect your values and opinions? Do you leave your time together feeling happy?

Healthy:

Your partner is supportive of the things you do and encourages you to try new things.
Your partner makes you feel happy with a general feeling of comfort and freedom to be yourself.
Your partner listens when you have something on your mind, is uplifting with his or her words, and makes you feel special.

Unhealthy:

When you are together, you feel like you can’t do anything right or like no one else would want you.
You feel anxious around your partner with a general feeling of “walking on eggshells.”
Your partner uses more put downs than compliments and is critical of what you wear or what you say.

2. How do my friends and family feel about this relationship?

The opinion of your friends and family matters because they know you well and want what’s best for you. Ask your friends and family specifically what they like or dislike about you and your partner being together. Has being with your partner strengthened your friendships? Or do you see your friends and family significantly less than you used to?

Healthy:

Your partner gets along with your friends and family.
You and your partner are able to spend time together with friends and family.
Although your partner might miss you, he or she is supportive and understanding when you spend a weekend with the girls, have a guy’s night out, or go on a family vacation.

Unhealthy:

Your partner does not attempt to get along with your closest friends and family.
Your partner complains that you spend too much time with your family and rarely accompanies you to get-togethers.
Your partner attempts to control who you see and when, constantly checks in on you when you’re away, or gets extremely jealous when you talk to someone of the opposite sex and accuses you of flirting or cheating.

3. How do we resolve conflict?

Conflict is normal in relationships, romantic or otherwise. The question is not if there is conflict, but what causes conflict and how it is managed. Are you and your partner able to listen to one another and compromise, or do you sweep conflict under the rug or place blame?

Healthy:

You and your partner can both express your thoughts and feelings to each other.
You are able to disagree with your partner.
You keep your personal conflict between the two of you and may seek help resolving conflict from a trusted friend or family member together.

Unhealthy:

Your partner may express his or her thoughts and feelings to you, but does not listen when you express yours or vice versa.
Your partner blames you for everything or you automatically claim that the fault is yours in order to keep the peace.
Your partner yells and humiliates you in front of other people or threatens to hurt you, your friends, your family, or themselves.

4. How does my partner express anger?

Whether it’s family drama, a work-related incident, or the car breaking down, you will see your partner angry at some point. How do they express their feelings when things don’t go their way or the two of you disagree?

Healthy:

Your partner is able to calm him or herself down.
Your partner is able to talk about what happened and does not place blame on you or others.
Your partner remains level-headed and reasonable despite being upset.

Unhealthy:

Your partner sometimes threatens to destroy your things, or breaks/throws things as a warning when angry and you are the only one who can calm your partner down.
Your partner punishes you with the silent treatment and will not talk about what happened or seek to solve the problem.
Your partner is unable to control anger and often yells one minute, then is sweet and apologetic the next.

5. Does my partner respect my physical boundaries?

You get to create the limits that identify what behavior is permissible towards you and how you will respond when someone surpasses those limits. Does your partner respect you when you create boundaries around your time and physical comfort level?

Healthy:

Your partner gives you the time and space you need.
Your partner knows your physical limits and respects them.
When your partner touches you, it is affectionate and within your boundaries.

Unhealthy:

Your partner calls and texts constantly or shows up at your workplace unannounced, especially during times of conflict.
Your partner pressures or forces you into having sex or going farther than you want to.
Your partner has grabbed you harshly or has shoved, choked, punched, slapped, held you down, or hurt you in some way.

Whether it has happened only once or multiple times, anyone crossing your physical boundaries is NOT okay. For assistance with domestic violence or abuse, contact one of the agencies below:

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)
Abuse Recovery Ministry and Services (ARMS): 509-484-0600
New Jersey Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-572-SAFE (7233)

Take the Next Step

If you have noticed unhealthy signs in your relationship, help and support is available. At Lighthouse Pregnancy Resource Center, we can help you develop a healthy relationship whether you are single, dating, engaged, or married. Call us today, text 201-677-2394, or schedule an appointment online for resources on building and maintaining a healthy relationship.

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How Healthy is My Relationship?

19 Aug How Healthy is My Relationship?

1. How does this relationship make me feel?

2. How do my friends and family feel about this relationship?

3. How do we resolve conflict?

4. How does my partner express anger?

5. Does my partner respect my physical boundaries?

Take the Next Step

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